Probably shouldn't respond in woman's issues, but have been lucky in that mine really liked pot too. Think the big catch I see banging on this will be money. Isn't it always?? You don't spend it where the other thinks you should. Granted there's some givens, kids, food, housing, but you go recreation and some friction can develop, and differences regarding friends. Kills me that my wife knows the sheriff and the Chief of police for political reasons (sobs if you ask me). But I'm kinda antisocial according to her.