Much mo' betta.
And, you are correct.
What looked like a nascent male flower, is actually a burgeoning sugar leaf.

Happy for ya.
Now, your choices change.
You can isolate and grow out the female of course.
But, if not desperate for meds, I'd use the "hermie's" XX pollen on the healthy female for some "feminized" seed.

It's getting harder to purchase new seeds every day.
Customs is upping their game.
So, think ahead.

Aloha,
Weeze