Your both so young its mad to think either of u can look after a child and still have a life do u two really want to give up going out to parties or even going to a movie cant do any of that with a baby you cant go out or do anything all you guys will be doing is worring all the time about what you are missing out on once the baby comes and if your doing the right things for the baby is that what u want no life to be at home everyday not go out and have fun . Your both so young should be out there enjoying life not at home with a baby. Talk to some young people that have a baby at your age and you'll see how hard your life is going to get. You see its not even close to a bed of roses big time.