@ when firs picture was made soil was ok. i was worried i overwatered. my girl came and checked the soil and screamed at me that soil is too dry... at that moment leaves were pointing a lil down - like a plant needing a water. so i watered. next morning boom plants top is facing down the soil and leaves had dried - even the newgrowth had marks. used the paper clip and pen to turne the leaves up and hold the pot under the sun (moved pot even when sun moved). today plant looks like its tottaly dry. stem seems healty, seems that these dark shrinks wont let juice through and top dries out.