you'r 17. Get out on your own. I see so many threads like this with a 17 or so year older, just get out! You can work and finish school. And then do what ever it is you do. But I doubt you're dad will quit, he will do the same thing as you. Say ciggeretes help the family because he can control his temper and blah blah blah. Then blow up in his face about how crazy you are because weed isn't there. Then he will say you're addicted, then tell him it's exactly what he did, just replace the drug