Okay. I should've given more info up front, my bad. So I will sum up:
Super Lemon Haze - heavy sativa
Rainforest Blend soil, started from seed in quart pot, transplant into 3 gallon pot
Nutrients:
Veg: Flora series, superthrive (1 ml/g), liquid karma (basically a seaweed compost tea), cal-mag, silica blast, 250-1000 ppm, twice a week, water in between
Bloom: Botanicare Pro Bloom 2-3-5, L.K., cal-mag, mag, Hydroplex 0-10-6, silica blast, all half strength, fed in a.m. every other day, 1000 ppm, water in afternoon, sleep at night.
Peep the setup:
Attachment 290052
That is an older picture but the lights are the same and the SLH is in a support-scrog. I've got the 400 W Super HPS at 3 feet. It's high because the plant is wilting so badly I am afraid to burn it up. There are 54 W T5's on the sides and CFL's all over.
Input nute and water pH is 5.8. Runoff is typically 6.2-6.5, running two gallons pH'd water thru
Now I understand why all these tools that experts use are needed for challenging grows. This one was tough from the get-go, so I figured it might be a bad pheno, took a cutting, and popped another seed. The new seedling shot up and fell over, so I added some soil to tighten her up. She's greener and healthier than the first.

Looking over things now, I suppose I was thinking she was overwatered at first. Then, I did some searching and decided she was overnuted. After tomorrows flush, I would like to start a regimen for her. Since some colas are healthy and some are weird, I am at a loss as to what to do. Flushing as such a pain with a soil scrog...argh i am frustrated that my light is being used up whilst I have BlueOG looking fresh! I feel like I'm adding weeks to the already very long flowering period (12-14).

Last thing: She vegged for 2 months under 400 W SuperBlue MH, had at least 10 internodes and preflowers before transition. Temps always between 75-80 day/55-60 night. 11.5 on,12.5 off. Hella ventilation and circulation. Low humidity (Arizona mountains). No pests or diseases indicated except the occasional little gnat.
Thanks again for any strategies to cope with her.

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