without better pics its really hard to tell bro. the white hairs retract when they get pollinated and change color but they also change color normally as the flower stage progresses and they get near the end. you may well have had some rogue males pop in here and there.
if they have been hit not much you can do now. seeds never make us happy, unless that was the goal in the first place. they arent the end of the world, and it can still be killer.
i just used paint to edit the pics pretty easy stuff really. dont stress, it'll work out.