Hey JoeBlow...
You may want to check out the trouble shooting forum; as you are in trouble and not giving enough information, for anyone to help! As much to do with the plants themselves, as the grow space and lights. And probably why no-one has posted.

I f*cked up! and have way too many in veg for the size of the flower room. (Long story + bad advice + more females than expected + FIRST TIME GROW)

I wouldn't exactly call that mucking up!:thumbsup: Sounds more like Lucking Up! Most people don't get those odds, with their seeds! And you may want to add another box for, ' cull' or gift out a plant or so. Idk, but, you need to fill in the facts. And of course, pictures, if you can figure that one out. I haven't, and I've been around awhile. lol no pc geek here! Not to mention the following....I think the trouble shooting list is in this (I copied from Dutch Pimps Signature). It wouldn't hurt to look in the signatures of the growers here that you like, either.
ostreadfaq:.....pearls before swine

Not to mention, there are some recent threads on this issue:
http://boards.cannabis.com/basic-gro...echniques.html

Sounds like you are lucky and this will get worked out. One thing for sure, they will GROW! Best of luck growing.:rasta: pr