There is so many books written here; I can't read it all. So; I will give you my .02 worth. No offense to anyone else. Try this diea.

1st thing you need to do mama; Buy a PH pen. You can find an in expensive one on ebay. Many will say buying a cheap PH pen is a joke, but at least it will get you started. Later on, you can invest in a better pen or meter.

Although many folks believe that you need to ph water from the start...this is not true. PH does not effect plants until they are big enough to have a healthy set of roots. 2 weeks to 4 weeks.

If you are going to grow plants in soil; Start them in jiffy pellets. Buy a tray and clear cover with peat pellets included. Just use what you need. Follow the directions. It will work. You can start plants in these Jiffy pellets, and not transplant until roots are penetrating the cheese cloth around the pellets. Probably 4-5 nodes on stem.

At this point. Transplant pellets/seedlings into 1 gallon pots filled with a couple layers of newspaper to hold a 1/2-1 inch of pebbles, or lava rock. (This allows drainage, and oxygen for the roots). Normally I don't recommend Miracle Grow, But! Miracle Grow, "Organic choice" Potting soil works great. You can fill your 1 gallon pots with "Organic Choice for you veg period (16-18 hours), and your plants will be healthy and happy.

This is a very simple beginners method, and I promise you will be fine. When plants are small, you only have to water every 3 days most likely. And; After you transplant into your 1 gallon pots; You "DO" need your PH @ 6.5 You can order PH down off ebay for 7-8 bucks and learn how to use it with your PH pen; Or go to auto parts store, and buy a Battery acid refill kit. don't worry; Battery acid is nothing more than Diluted Sulphuric acid and is used by commercial growers everywhere. You only need a few drops in a gallon.

Hope this helps. Will be glad to help you keep a simple grow going. if you get to 8 weeks old plants that are healthy; I will explain how to replant in 3 gallon pots without stress. Or; Go to the growfaqs area and read. Good Luck Mama. Peace