female budding plant

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think my female plant is starting to die all the hairs on the buds are dissapearing or is this normal been budding roughly 2-3wks now but its like it has stopped growing for some reason ,on the buds well underneath the leafs were the bud grows theres tiny lil balls dunno if thats the bud or if its turning male hellllppppp post pics soon

Any pics yet? Can't really answer till we see it.