Quote Originally Posted by Microwave
I treat everyone with respect, which coincides with how I want to be treated by others. However, those who are disrespectful to me receive the same treatment in return. :thumbsup:
I realized, i forgot to put what I do. SAME thing Microwave.

My problem is, it is very difficult for me to be rude and mean. Takes so much energy. So, lately, I just walk away and completely avoid the person. Which, psychologically speaking, is not a good thing to do.

However, when I weigh it all out mentally...it is too much, physically. So, I guess I process it..like, how much will this matter 10 years from now, 20? Then I choose to 'let it go' or continue to avoid the person, until I can figure out a better answer.

Then, I remain reserved, sometimes for a very long time. Once I make a firm decision, it usually, is to confront the person with their rude behavior or whatever.

<No sense being angry with someone, if they have no clue what I am angry with them about>

It is almost like letting them live rent free in my head.

Eventually, I take a stand. :jointsmile: pr