Having problems "Down there" plz help.

[justinsane]

dont finger her for an hour dude! haha, do it for like a few minutes, then go in.

[mlleyeuxbleus]

Two things that may help: 1. Some men find that a cock ring can help maintain an erection (put on once already erect). Bonus... some of these have fun things for your gal also... nubs, lil vibrators, etc. 2. Here's a tip that may help make condoms feel more natural for you... before you put the condom on, put a drop or two of heating lube on the frenulum area. Then apply condom & proceed as usual. The heating lube can be either the yummy, fruity stuff from a specialty shop, or as simple as the new heated KY sold practically everywhere now. The friction of intercourse will gently heat the lube (it doesn't get piping hot unless you blow on it), which some guys say creates a more natural feeling.

Smart girl you've got, insisting on a party hat for backup. My mom was on the pill 28 years ago, & oops, here I am! In any case, don't stress too much about it... nobody has a perfect, porn-quality sex life 100% of the time. Just relax & have fun!

[SmokinThaHaze]

Hey man wussup, dont forget ur not a pornstar, im sure we wish we were lol, but yea man that happens ta tha best of us......... an mcauley u funny as hell lmfao.......

[wutang123456]

dude, first time, with a condom, its hard to get it up, but just keep trying.

the secret is, use non-lubed

[wannagethigh]

dude, first time, with a condom, its hard to get it up, but just keep trying.

the secret is, use non-lubed

UNless ur girl is wet like a faucet, bad advice. My first time a few months ago the same fucking thing happened to me. I was so pissed about it i told the girl i needed to smoke weed to feel better and possibly make me perform better. Toked up, and what do u know, fucked her rock hard for 30 minutes.

[mlleyeuxbleus]

I agree with wanna... non-lubed not so good. Lube is our friend, lol! One thing, though, best to get lubed but *not* the kind with spermicide. That horrendous spermicide (nonoxonyl-9) has many bad side effects, & there are rumors that it may be taken off the market eventually. It can give sort of a numbing effect to the guy & the girl too, & also can be very irritating for both (but generally moreso for the girl, & can cause yeast infections, burning, etc.). Best to keep such toxic substances away from the naughty bits!

[mlleyeuxbleus]

An informative link about nonoxynol-9: http://www.hivandhepatitis.com/recen...n/092702a.html