I'm confused. I have my pride and joy plant. That just SPROUTED right up and is twice as tall as the others .And it has clusters, so that's a male. Bummer. And then I have some plants. That have one or two little pear-shaped balls. But no pistils have emerged. Do the pistils emerge from the pear shaped bulbs? There's only one or two on the plants. But my male already has like 50 clusters. I have one plant that has pistils already emerged. So confused.