ok thanxs people that was helpful someone else said miracle grow wasnt so good so this was kinda a conformation so i went and got a smaller pot about 6" at the top rim and maybe as deep and i switched to fox farms ocean something potting soil (it has natural nutes where miracle ... has artificial.) i put a small vicks humidifier in the room(obviously w/o the liquid vicks add) and i have a fan the lights are about 5.5 from her highest leafs (the plant store i went to said that leaves curling up are usually searching for nutes while leaves curling down are getting a lockout from to much..)...to the last post yea i did spray it with a anti spider mite plant spray (ferti-lome indoor outdoor multi purpose insect spray...we previously had due to house plant gnats)[attachment=o281810]