OK thank you. I had read that in a book that all plants have them but I didn't know that's what THOSE were. I'm kind of scared that it'll be a "he" since there's 2 and this one is WAY bigger than the other one. This one is 5 (1/2)" tall & 20" wide when the other is 4(3/4)" tall & 10" wide. I've heard the male plant will looks great but then turns out to be well.. a male. Is this true or am I worrying for nothing?