Why is growing not an option?

Reason I ask, is it's about the only thing I give half way decent advice about.

Judging bud quality is a learned skill.

Reading about it is not experience, but it's a good start.
I suggest that you click on the link in my signature and start reading.
You'll find a veritable plethora of information. (Sorry, hadda)

Seriously, you'll get plenty of help here.
But what quality of help you get, will reflect the quality of your queries, yah?

Welcome to cdot from a fellow traveler.

Aloha,
Weezard