Oh ok i want to have another naturally i just gotta find out those things.I couldnt have sex for 3 mths and then it hurt bad the first few times but it looked fully healed from the outside within 2 weeks.Im holding off going for an ultrasound for a while as im scared and also waiting till then to have an ultrasound because its possible the baby may have neural tube defect and hopefully i will see in that ultrasound after the first trimester.I just know all will be ok.Only 2 people know im pregnant im waiting to have tests and i think i have to have amniocentisis if they cant get a clear ultrasound pic which they never can see because i have a retroverted uterus so is done internally.