No PGS 420, you don't have to take it! It is severely disrespectful and you are considered a 'door matt!' Get out! You do not have to tolerate being called derogatory names. There is something wrong with those people! You deserve better and need to want that for yourself!

Being quiet is one thing. But calling you sorry assed names is BAD. No matter how you look at it.

Sure makes me wonder when the bf's Mother got wise and left! You need to follow that path (provided she is still living). Often, the way a man thinks of his Mom is much more important in the matters of your own relationship! Check it out and weigh the differences! You may be a lot like the fellows Mom and she may have been portrayed to be a 'bad' person. When in fact, she was just more intelligent than these guys!

We always have a choice. Do something, do nothing or choose maybe! You have all your facts and maybe doesn't look like an option for you at this point! You will not 'argue' the fb to your side of the fence and you are living in a hostile environment! You need a space where you can 'bloom' and be creative. Easier said than done. So, you need all the help you can muster! Hopefully, you have 'family' & friends for a good support system. This is a nice place for it, but it is so virtual. People (like myself included) can tell you many things, but you have to live it and make your own decisions! Not to mention, we are in and outta here by the click of a button. Plus, last night after 8:30 PM I couldn't even get on this site! Dunno why, just thought perhaps there was a cookie or something in my system for visiting another site (duh, no paranoia here). But, defragmented, cleared History and Cookie's! Still didn't work. O.K. today!

No matter what you decide, you need to set your own goals and go for it! You have support here. And, I would be the last person that would advise anyone leaving a relationship. First, I would suggest Therapy, but can tell that is not gonna work here. Cause you have some "know it alls' and they are always right and you are wrong. You keep being shoved down a hole, you start believing you belong there (you do not). You will and maybe already are losing your self-respect-esteme and the things that make you who you are. Don't know your age, but we are never young enough to not let it affect our future. Change your future by changing what you are presently accepting!

Wishing you the best and hope you can do what is best in a bad situation!:thumbsup: You don't need to argue or debate your 'rightness' with someone that knows it all. The apples don't fall too far from the tree and what his Dad is, is what you may waste a lot of your life with before you choose to make it better for yourself! Sadly, his Dad's gf is treated much better than you are and that SUCKS!!! Can't find an icon for run or would put it here!

Always plan your exit carefully! pr