well...i asked this question for a reason and i didn't want to say that i did i just wanted to be as a poll to see more honest answers......i still don't know i mean i've never planned on introducing it to him....but i have a worrysome wife (he's not even 1 year yet so i got some time) but i want to know ahead of time whether i'm going to do the whole "you don't need to be doing that blah blah blah don't do it again" thing "or if i should do the whole "son, this isn't somthing to just party and have fun with there's alot more to it then just stickin it in a pipe and smoking it....you need to learn about it and stuff" thing.....i dunno.....it's hard to think of what to do tho. becasue it is a decision that will affect the rest of his life.....