tks again lads .
im fucking gutted , i only have 3 plants and 2 of them are in 1 pot .
now i will cut the the fucking fail , from the base and leave the other in the same pot and hope it stays true .
also i have noticed the plants fighting over food and the small female plant was dieing , so take a look at the pic of the bad fan leaves . im not sure what made the leaves go like this .