Wow, I agree. The whole idea of the "Perfect family" is bullshit. A family that appears nice on the outside, on the inside they are probably molesting thier kids and beating the wife. In my opinion, it is somewhat laughable that people even care about this crap. It's not your family, so how the hell are you going to change it? Work on your own family and stop worrying about others. Stop trying to control other people's lives.

On the gay family issue, I just have to say THANK THE JESUS AND THE BUDDHA that I wasnt adopted by gays b/c #1, they would probhably turn you gay and #2, boy would you get made fun of in school..... "hey look it's Ben, he has 2 daddies!!! ROFL!!!" Boy that would suck.