Here's something to ponder...
If something causes problems in your life, you have a problem with it. End of frigging story. You were not nearly mature enough to consider the consequences of your actions, and are now paying the price. Your father's attitude is a combination of his past experiences with cannabis, and your fucking-up and getting caught. And I disagree with a previous statement that the dad is getting mad at cannabis instead of blaming the son. IMHO, dad is blaming the drug for taking his kid down the same road as others in the family. (laziness, forgetfulness, irresponsible, untrustworthy, uncaring for rules and family...) Likely it's your "it's no big deal" approach to getting caught and suspended, that is killing your dad. Normal folks feel remorse when caught doing something they know is wrong. Justifying the illegal behavior is folly, as is wondering why the attitudes against cannabis are virtually set in stone for some folks. Want to change his attitude...? Straighten-up and fly right. Show him that cannabis isn't the destructive force it's touted to be, that it's possible to smoke cannabis responsibly. If you can, that is...

This member's situation and his question are among the reasons old-timers like myself are fading away. I'll be damned if I'm going to offer growroom knowledge to some child that is likely use the info to further their own downfall. Many of us old timers have given the mods clues about this situation, but the posts keep getting deleted and temporary bans dished-out. If this site is going to remove previous restrictions and the original stated reason for this site is discarded, I'm outta here too. Too bad, too. This WAS a nice place to learn how to grow meds without shitloads of prissy little teens running around being fools. Truly a shame.