I'm really enjoying your log even though you really are having a rough time of it health-wise. Hopefully the girls will help with that shortly.

You asked about molasses earlier and in my, albeit short, experience its fine to use right through to the end harvest if you wish. Personally I start adding it around week 3 and use it at the dosage of 1 teaspoon per 4 litres (about a gallon). It must be the unsulphured molasses. There's a good sticky here on the forum about molasses if you've not read it before.

Maybe your partner would be interested in baking with a bit of cannabis instead of smoking - if she wants to try it out that is? I don't smoke either but my cookies and cupcakes have given us a few hilarious weekend parties. Its an option anyways. There's a whole recipes section here with all sorts of ideas.

Keep safe