Quote Originally Posted by omnibuddy
No matter how negative a neighbor is; you will only come out ahead by keeping your cool.

I strongly suggest that you determine your rights by law. I don't suggest addressing your neighbor at a legal level, however it is imperative that you know your rights and so that you know what actions she has taken which qualify as illegal. It is good you are keeping notes on incidents and associated dates. Make sure to preserve the social networking evidence on both Marijuana (which notable may be legal for her to have) and most importantly abuse of other drugs or alcohol. I am sure this will assist you if and when your neighbor forces a legal situation upon you.

I would recommend speaking with the neighbor that is now leaving you alone; perhaps they can give you insight into the deeper reason that the second neighbor is still acting out against you.

Being the mature party is hard, but if you can figure out their real problem, then maybe you can address it.

Be safe; don't break any laws!
Speaking to the other neighbor isn't an option. They are both friends, however my next door neighbor did say something wrong about her "friend", so that gives some insight on how she is. I would never break any laws, that would be a dream come true for both neighbors. So far, I've been keeping a log, plus I have captured the info from her page. As time goes by, I'll keep capturing info, maybe shoot an annomyus e-mail to her boss with the info about drug use in it (I'll save that for another battle just in case). She says she wants to move out, but she's been saying that since 2008. I was just hoping for her to just move away, but that was not the case.
spastic12 Reviewed by spastic12 on . bad neighbor I've lived in my area for 7 years, and after 2 months go by from when I bought the house, I received a letter from the city because my lawn is not "green enough". I did battle with the city and explained my situation. They understood. I asked them for records of reports in my house, and it turns out that my next door neighbor had been reporting us to the city. Later, we get a letter in the mail from her telling us to move away and that I don't know how to own a house. Since then, she had Rating: 5