I hate this...(Can you help me)

[sToNeDpEnGuIn420]

Ok right so this is shit...
Ok so heres the situation: Ive been living with my grandma since the end of may last year. Before that i was living with my parents, but i left because if i stayed there i would have commited suicede.My mom for the past 10 months or so has been asking me to come home and what not. I dont plan on going home, but today i got a call from her,heres how it went
Mom:I want you to come home
Me:Thats nice
Mom:You need to come home
Me:umm no?
Mom:If you dont come home im going to file a report that your a run away.
Me:If you seriously do that you will have no contact with me anymore at all.
Momdont rember what she said)
and so on
Right so then i call my dad and explain what my mom said, he hadnt even talked to her about it, well had but not recently. Then he tried to say that he was just trying to make things better for me(he thinks things arent good because i smoke weed) He lost everything when he was younger because he did speed but he trys to pull weed into it and say thats why but i know it was the speed.

Yeah so theres my situation. Im planning on finding somewhere else to stay tomrw, does anyone know what will happen if she does file the report?
Im only 15 so i cant get emncipated but my birthday is June 5th and i cant wait to get it. So yeah im going to be living with someone else for awhile i guess...Yeah this really sucks to cuz things we startin to go ok, and school was getting back on track, now im not even going to be able to go to school.
Well does anyone know how all the legal stuff works? and what could happen to me? Thanks any other advice welcome to

sToNeDpEnGuIn420 Reviewed by sToNeDpEnGuIn420 on 04-29-2005. I hate this...(Can you help me) Ok right so this is shit... Ok so heres the situation: Ive been living with my grandma since the end of may last year. Before that i was living with my parents, but i left because if i stayed there i would have commited suicede.My mom for the past 10 months or so has been asking me to come home and what not. I dont plan on going home, but today i got a call from her,heres how it went Mom:I want you to come home Me:Thats nice Mom:You need to come home Me:umm no? Mom:If you dont come home Rating: 5

[GHoSToKeR]

woah.. i cant help you dude.. i wish i could, coz thats a shitty position to be in.. all i can do is wish you luck and hope for the best

[Darkneon420]

Oh penguin...Im so sorry your going through this right now. Its very difficult and tricky to figure out a solution but one day im sure you'll find one...why cant you stay with your grandmother? Your 15 you have to right to tell a judge where you'd like to live. Perhaps if you give them good reasons and explain your problem last time whilst living with your parents the judge might understand. Explain about school too. Best of luck penguin man!

[sToNeDpEnGuIn420]

Damn, no other replys haha oh well yeah i get it no one cares, but thanks darkneon and ghost you guys fucking rock

[richieguy69]

Holy shit dude. That's really shitty. Are you sure that she can do that legally?

[Button Basher]

If she DOES file the report (which I don't think she well, that's a little extreme considering she knows exactly where you are and could probs be arrested/fined for wasting cop time), then your parent's are seriously dumb and need to reconsider their methods.

Don't be sour to spite them. Talk to them, let them know YOUR concerns and needs and try to reassure them your not gonna get fucked up like your dad. You might wanna remind him speed is class A and he's a dumbass for doing it so often at your age anyway . Your parents want you to come home, so let them know what it'll take. Your not in the wrong.

[Don Dimitri]

..rise above it bro , as long as your high just ride it out. Dont let em get to you dude.
Stay i......

[Dark Seraph]

Aw that sucks, man. My friend went through the exact same situation a year and a half ago. He ended up holding his tongue and kinda dealing with the chaotic state in the household until after he turned sixteen, and then he became emancipated. There's a lot of stuff you gotta do though (not to stress you out, cuz right now I'm stressed to the brink and wouldn't wish that on anybody). But, yeah you gotta prove that you would be able to support yourself if you want to be emancipated, and sometimes that means dropping out of high school and getting a job; you also have to prove that the living situation within your home is not creating a mentally productive and physically healthy environment. Didn't you post pictures of your girlfriend a while ago? --Are you guys still together, 'cause just having someone close to you that you can talk to helps.
*holds his breath in hopeful anticipation that you are still with her, and he didnt bring up a sore subject*
~Brandon

[Dark Seraph]

Oh, and i dont mean to infringe on anyone, 'cause after i posted that i started thinking about the "100 post rule:" You shouldn't be giving sage wisdom as if you know everybody's problems unless you've posted more (100 or so). But I'm new, so cut me some slack.

[sToNeDpEnGuIn420]

Thanks to everyone else who replied also. Dark Seraph thanks for the advice and no i dont judge people but their number of posts, its just a number, just like age is just a number
And yeah thats probably what will end up happening but i wont end up going home, just livnig somewhere else until im 16 which is only about a month then get emncipated, im just not sure that if im filed as a runaway tho and then i tried to do it what would happen.