Quote Originally Posted by prettypisces
Thanks guys, I just might get an apartment and hide the fact that I have a house so I can have a normal social life. After a couple of weeks, the men I've dated start to wonder why they can't come over. The last guy said he felt like I was living with a boyfriend and didn't have time for games...my ideal situation would be to grow WITH my boyfriend! Frustrating...
I feel for you, pretty. But keeping your situation private is the key to a successful and undetected grow.

Personally if someone can not understand that I want a private life outside of the dating realms and choose to not have them in my apt./home etc. if they can not understand this then they are not worth my time and trouble.

Best of luck to you and your dating life! My hopes for you is to find a grower whom is as "paranoid" as you and you fall in love and live a happy, healthy and high life together! I'll be watching ...

Best regards to you,
Lynhal