I'm going through a divorce currently, so I know a little how it feels when someone doesn't love you. (Little worse since they were supposed to have in the first place.)

If she's just not interested in a romantic relationship, then I wouldn't linger over the idea. You take it one day at a time. Focus on the positives in your life. Find them, no matter what. I don't care if the only thing you can be happy about is the feel of your bathwater on your skin, revel in it. Don't sit around thinking about her in a romantic way. Anytime you catch yourself doing so, distract yourself. Shift your attention to something that will make you happy. Eventually (it may take a long time, it may not) it'll get easier.

Look to the future and your goals in life. If you don't have any set up at the moment, make small goals and daydream about what you would really love to do. Don't stop daydreaming about that. Make up as many scenarios as possible and explore the ideas in your head. You'll figure out your way in life, sometimes it just feels like you're stuck in quicksand, but you can work your way out.

And remember that even though that one person might not be THE one, there are plenty of people out there that think you're hot and would love to spend time with you. So don't ever let your self esteem get low. It's not worth it to chop yourself down for those few people who judge you (or you think judge you). Everybody has those people so we might as well all ignore them and remember how ridiculously sexy we all are.

Maybe someday she'll figure out she does like you but you shouldn't be worrying about that. If you focus on yourself you'll come out of the other side of this process with a better understanding of yourself, your desires in life, and how strong you really are. Because I promise you're a lot stronger than you ever dreamed. And then you'll really be a true catch for some lucky lady.

Hope that was helpful and it was not intended to sound preachy at all...this is just definitely my life right now. Haha. I have found a lot of strength in myself recently that I didn't know I had.

Best wishes.
HannahAbbot Reviewed by HannahAbbot on . Lost in love So i guess this is the best place to post this. I feel comfortable around you guy and gals because for the most part we have similar interest and all that jazz. And seeing as how i don't have a "strong" father figure and my mom is a great mom but she is a mom so you know she will give me mom advice. So here is my situation: It all started when I went to my first year of college last year (away from home), and i met this girl. At first she didn't really talk to me (i'm an awkward guy, Rating: 5