@tikiroom Thanks for analyzing my posts and sorry to everyone that tryed to help if it was confusing. The web like thing ISS cotton :S and please reffer to the 4 pics I posted about the problem with the plant :/

...now maybe I can get a better idea of what is actually wrong =)

-->> Also after I watered the plant with very little neem oil and room temp water that was left out... I poured out that water and I guess must have washed out any nutrients added from the first (and only time) I fertilized the plant with diluted fertilizer. After that this "problem" of the discoloration of the leaves went away (knock-on-wood)