Criticize My First Ever Friend :) (Pics+very detailed)

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The 2 bulb fixture is $20, bulbs sold separately at $5ea...

Is that at home depot?
And I was just looking at 'her?' :P again and more worries.
The bottoms of the leafs look fine. But now there are some brown spots on my leafs 0.0

Heres what the leafs look like from top Minus the actual bugs you see here and a little less white:
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And the brown spots look sort of like this but I can say they are exatly like this:
Black spots on White Widow outdoor leaves

I'm scared HELP
I applyed neem oil to the seedling/plant twice (yesterday and the day before and have left the hotshot strip thing in the cabinet for the last two days)