i moved out when i was 16, i'm now 45 and even though my mum,sister and 2 brothers only live a 10 minute drive away i only see my mum about once every 8 months and my bros and sister once every 2 years, even though i see very little of my family, they all know that i love them to bits and if they ever need me i will allways be there for them, i feel a little guilty now thinking how little i see them i'm going to phone them all up and remind them how much i love them, they will probaly think i'm drunk LOL