Advice?

[ScarlettCrush]

do you know how many CC's of sterile saline it takes to perform a proper scrotal linflation, do you know what shibari means or how to tie a half shank, would you know how many volts is safe for a 45 year old heavy smoker, can you snap a whip 2 inches from someone's ear, do you know how to perform full heat mummification, sanely guide someone through age regression or sensory deprivation, do you now how to safely perform breathplay, how to insert a catheter, how to take someone to the absolute edge of what they can take...and then push them further. Do you know how to evaluate someone at a glance, how to tell on the phone what someone wants, what they need and how they are like from a five minute conversation.
I don't have sex with my clients ever, and to suggest so is to seriously disrespect myself and my position.
I have invested thousands of dollars and thousands of hours of my time learning how to do these things and so many more. I have spent so much money and creativity on instruments and dungeon furniture. I run my own business, accounting, promotions, web design. I change lives for the better on a weekly basis..... and what do you do, but sit here and critisize me.
Shame on you.

ScarlettCrush Reviewed by ScarlettCrush on 05-05-2005. Advice? Well... This school year is almost over (I am a junior) and I am doing horribly. I think that I am failing like 3 or 4 classes- Im not dumb or anything, I just have a very hard time paying attention and my mind just wanders (even when I go to class with the mind-set that I am going to focus and do my work). I do wonderfully on tests but I just dont do classwork or homework. I recently was put on an attendance contract since I skipped like 32 days, which means I have to go the rest of the year. Rating: 5

[likemclever]

I bet she could put some shit on you that you didnâ??t even know existed.....never fuck with a dominatrix.

[jacquelyne]

I dont really know about the education system there.I was the same at school i didnt want to be there most of my friends left in yr 10 but i wasnt allowed.I finished and got a job as a trainee dental assistant/hygienist.I did that for5 a few yrs and finished the course was ok.I never wanted to go to uni i cant justify paying $50,000 for a year at university even though there is a hecs fee so it dont need to be payed until your earing over 40,000 a year.The things that i love and wanted to learn i had to pay big money for but the other (more important things) through tertiary and further education is the best way to go.It probably only costs $600 per year for whatever u want to do.There is just about every course imaginable and heaps of trade courses like chef or electrical engineer whatever.I became a qualified aromatherapist,cert 1,2 &3 fine arts,dental course and im about to apply for a course called artistic welding i hope i get in there are no formal entry requirements for that course as its a pre trade course.

[madkat]

Actually I am quite familiar with several forms of rope play, and have known the art of knot tying since I was a Junior Girl Scout. I took a course of Midoriâ??s in California several years ago, so I am well acquainted with shibari. I am very open minded when it comes to sexuality and BDSM, but the idea of promoting the lifestyle as a way to make money is an anathema.

I can only guess you mean scrotal â??INFLATIONâ?�, and all I can say to that is â??Why the flying fuck would I care about blowing up a ball sack?â?�

Yadayadayadayada, talk as much as you will about all your â??knowledgeâ?�, being a Professional Domme is being a sex-worker. You make your living taking money from people to fulfill their warped sexual desires.

[Mojavpa]

Yadayadayadayada, talk as much as you will about all your â??knowledgeâ?�, being a Professional Domme is being a sex-worker. You make your living taking money from people to fulfill their warped sexual desires.

If thats your definition of a sex worker, then many people fit that category-probably many people in the music and entertainment industry. Is Britney Spears a sex worker? I mean, in my eyes, shes not a musician, just someone who makes her living being a sex symbol.

[ScarlettCrush]

there is obviously a need, and thank god there are open minded skiled people like myself to fill it. Empathy is also something needed to be a pro domme, I suggest you also try to get some. It may help you get along better with your fellow man.
I'm through defending myself, and I'm through giving a shit what you have to say about it. I wish I knew half as much as you since your so very sure of what is what and who is who.

[madkat]

The entire point of me posting to begin with is that you should not encourage a child to drop out of school.

If thats your definition of a sex worker, then many people fit that category-probably many people in the music and entertainment industry. Is Britney Spears a sex worker? I mean, in my eyes, shes not a musician, just someone who makes her living being a sex symbol.

Actually, a Pro Domme advertises such things as Golden Showers, Cock and Ball Torture, Anal Sex with strap on dilidos, and enemas. I think that is a wee bit more than "entertaining" and all the way into "sex worker" category, don't ya think?

Evidently your GED did not help you very much. "You're" is the correct contraction for "you are", not "your".

And I know who I am and what I am worth. I got my education and can do anything I want in the world. I may not make $200 an hour, but at least I can hold my head up in public.

[likemclever]

"You're" being a jerk.......feel better.

[llamaman666]

You can get a GED in more than 4 years, just go to summer school. ANd if all else fails do one of those things they advertise

[madkat]

"You're" being a jerk.......feel better.

Yes, for actually saying STAY IN SCHOOL, yes I am. Thank you for asking!

I have a niece who is going through a rough patch, making bad grades, is very depressed about life in general. Her parents are asshats and can't open their eyes to see the kids problem.

I told her to go to her counselor for help, and guess what! Thing's are much better. She is getting help, she is taking meds, her grades are better.

Yeah, I know she is lucky as hell and not everyone can get help like that. But as least she got off her ass, quit her whining and got her shit straightened out.

If you can't handle the shit, stop it. NOTHING IN THIS WORLD is more important than a good education.