So i saw my baby today after work and her flowers are lookin good gave her 1/4 strength nutes foliar and came home and she was lookin like the other day again but not as bad, i think the whitefly may have had something to do with it because the leaves the flys were on were the leaves that didn't look so good. So i just gave her another neem treatment (16oz water, 1/3 ounce neem oil, warm water splash of dish soap then sprayed underside of leaves thouroughly and the tops lightly) Just an update the flowers look plumper today after less than 10hr nute treatment. I will update tomorrow unless somebody has a good idea or two for me. BTW im not that worried top 1/3 of her is lookin incredible (see im learning...)