Howdy,

Well son, here's what I told my boys when they were starting to go out and have sexual dealings with the ladies. Never, EVER go on a date without unloading first. In other words (sorry ladies) you need to masturbate (but DON'T have an orgasm!!!) several times at least an hour before you leave the house. A loaded, cocked gun is never a good thing in sexual matters. So, choke the chicken, slap the salami, romp your Rhino or whatever it is you call it to get rid of that first load of eagerness, and you'll find that your staying power is amazingly increased. Reputations for sexual proficiency are made this way, incidentally.

On the other hand-- and this is for males and females alike-- masturbating to the very brink of orgasm WITHOUT climaxing (having an orgasm) several time just before going out on the pull will make you a very different person to those who know you, and just the sort of person the opposuite sex all of a sudden wants to have long, intimate conversations with.
By doing this your brain signals your glands to produce all kinds of cool juices that will squirt all through your body, and KEEP producing them until you have an orgasm. BY far, the most important of these "juices" is Pheromone, the chemical sexual attractant present in all animals.
It has no actuall scent so no one will know why they are attracted to you. They just are. In the case of males, the Pheromones exude through the sweat glands (mostly under the arms). Work up a decent sweat while you're masturbating (you too girls) to help this process along as much as possible. The more Pheromone "juice" you produce, the more the magic cocktail of goodness will waft around you. Girl's will get that up their noses when they sit near you, and their brain will tell them that there is a "ready" male in her vicinity. She won't even know exactly where it's coming from, but she'll feel aroused just be being around anyway. The same goes for ladies who use their new "power" on men. If you're rght there and make your move after she's had a good long while to absorb as much of your Pheromaones as possible, she'll be waaay more interested than she might have been had you just come in smelling like Calvin Klien or Old Spice or whatever.
Ladies, your Pheromone production occurs in a completely different area, although the sweat glands under your amrs will also become quite thick with your own personal chimical cocktail of sexual attractants. Here's the big difference, though. For a woman, the production of Pheromones occurs in the glands surrounding her Vulva, or outer vagina area. Shaved pubic hair has a detrimental effect on this process since the smooth skin will not perspire sufficiently to produce necessary levels to attract. But the most concentrated mixture of this powerful chemicals...whose ONLY purpose is to get healthy males aroused-- is between their buttocks.
This explains the male pre-occupation with the female butt. It's why the entire male population never fgils to sneak a good look at girl's bottoms when they wriggle past. They don't really know why that is, though. I mean, a woman's bottom is the exit area for some unpleasang materials and noises and whatnot, just like a man's. But because of the concentration of sexual chemistry always going on, they are drawn to that part of a woman's anatomy anyway.
Now, if a girl masturbates (several times) but doesn't allow herslef to have an orgasm, those Pheromones will gather in quantity between her buttocks. This is actually a very healthy mixture of sweat, body oils, etc. And of course copious quantities of her Pheromones.

I know that masturbating without releasing your pent up sexual frustrations doesn't sound like much fun, and may even be a bit uncomfortable (blue balls?) for men, but the results are well worth it. I have offered this same advice to many, many people both male and female over the years and you would be completely amazed (well, not after you've tried it for yourself!) at how popular they suddenly become that night in the clubs.

Well, I hope this has been educational and helpful for you guys and gals here. Use this information, but never abuse it to take unfair advantage of someone who may have had a bit too much to drink (or whatever) and simply isn't capable of making sensible decisions. As with anything, have a little class...a little poise...a litle polish and things will go well for you always.

Good luck to all of you and please feel free to contact me if I can offer a more in depth explanation.

Cheers!

Mojave Dave