You still have two whole seeds??? What's up with that? You need a shitload of seeds. Plant the seeds you have and make more. I would put your three in the same place, pray for a male, and let them breed. Then you will have 200+
seeds and a decent chance to have what you need for the future.

As for getting your card, I have heard it is hard to get on Oahu. I would recomend a trip to Big Island. There is a doctor there that hands them out like candy. I will give you his name, in a rec, look on your profile page. This doc has a dislike for opiates, If you go to him with your meds, tell him you don't want to get hooked on them, and that you are in constant pain and you are in. Hello blue card!

Once you have your card, and pops can't say shit, scrap the big pots. All you need are small ones to get your starts growing in. When they get 5 sets of leaves, plant directly in ground. Your plants will get much bigger in the dirt vs in pots.

Remember you can grow 90 day wonders to bud all the way to the third week in January. Plant before Jan 21st and they will go off. After that some will go off and some will get huge. The huge ones you can regrow, but that is another bridge to cross when you get there.

To do short season right, the secret is in the vegetative growth. The bigger they get the more they yield. They will only be vegeing for a short time. In that short time you want to get them as big as they can before the plants figure out the days are short and it's time to bud. So they should be pushed as fast as they can, to whatever height you can get. That means lots of sun, the right fertilizer, you don't let them get rootbound, use good soil, and if they are in pots, transplanting to slightly bigger pots every month.

As for soil, you mentioned you have jungle behind you. That leads me to believe you live in one of the hieghts on Oahu. Nice area. But the leached soil up there is garbage. If you go inground dig your holes early, and put some lime in the holes and use store bought soil. I use an even mix of Sunshine #3 and FoxFarm Ocean Forest. For ferts get some Osmicote 14-14-14 Time release and drop a handfull around the plant. Good soil = bigger plants.

OK, I think I covered ninty day wonders 101. More questions? Fire away.