Good luck OP(originalposter). I hope it works out for you and yours. I think Parker, Lakewood, and probably most rural places would be grow friendly. I don't think Denver or Aurora or Brighton would be good options for you at this point.

A word of advice: The more you open up here, the more likely you'll be personally attacked by the anonymous internet hater trolls. That's just the way it goes online.

Also, don't post your email address, you'll get banned. Seriously, read the posting rules and follow them, because the rules are applied fairly liberally. Just an FYI.