That REALLY sucks. In response to these events ruining your life, I totally agree and know where you're coming from. Prohibition is the thing that ruins people's lives, not cannabis. Screw the cops that spend their whole day punishing victimless crimes instead of actually doing something productive for the public that gives them their whole pay check... We need more real cops in the world, luckily my neighborhood is full of those real cops even though it's peaceful. If you're caught with a gram here, nothing happens; you only get a warning.