A friend of mine is having a problem because he took some one into confidence. I told him that not telling anyone (meaning anyone at all) is the #1 rule. Well his friend is telling everyone, taking pix, dropping snacks in the room, making superfluously incriminating "wise cracks" on the cell phone, yada yada yada.

My friend is all freaked out and may have pulled up all the plants as I write this. I said to think it over and not do anything rash.... But what the hell do I know.

Dear Abby, what to advise my friend to do?
Ocotillo Reviewed by Ocotillo on . Dear Abby, Pull the plug? :( A friend of mine is having a problem because he took some one into confidence. I told him that not telling anyone (meaning anyone at all) is the #1 rule. Well his friend is telling everyone, taking pix, dropping snacks in the room, making superfluously incriminating "wise cracks" on the cell phone, yada yada yada. My friend is all freaked out and may have pulled up all the plants as I write this. I said to think it over and not do anything rash.... But what the hell do I know. Dear Rating: 5