I Just Found Out

[youngster420]

i would cheat on her to make it fair

youngster420 Reviewed by youngster420 on 04-19-2005. I Just Found Out I just found out that my gf cheated on me :( not recently but we have been going out for a year and 2 months and she calls me 2day and tells me she cheated on me a year ago, and i said why because i would never cheat on nobody honestly, and she said because at the time she didnt trust me :( i dont see how i did everything and anything for her, then she said she didnt know we were to get serious, and i love her soooooo much and i'm just real hurt, i could never see her doing that to me!! and Rating: 5

[ScarlettCrush]

don't use this as an excuse to cheat on her, ignore every jerk on here telling you it's ok. That doesn't make it even, two hurts don't fix a relationship...they ruin it.

She messed around two months into the relationship. Sounds like you got serious too quickly, she committed to you before she knew you could be trusted. Seems like you all just moved too fast and she wasn't ready to settle down then. She should have told you she wasn't ready, but hey your both just kids...it's totally forgivable. It was a year ago, you barely knew each other then...let it go.
Don't feel hurt, be glad she trusts you enough to tell you, and loves you enough now to start with a clean slate. Don't hold it against her, don't bring it up in fights, just let her know you want monogamy from now on; that you loved her then and you love her now. Be a man about it.

[SmokinThaHaze]

thanks people for all the replies i really appreciate it alot...

[smokingwithfloyd]

u gotta forgive her. at least she told u about it right so apparently she does feel sorry about it. if she does it again though u gotta dump that bitch! dont become the pathetic boyfriend who wont stand up fopr himself but forgive her at least once.

[clevemire]

Personally, I'd kick the worthless cheatin bitch to the fuckin curb... but of course that's me.

If you can forgive her for it, you're a good man... or a foolish one. Time will tell. Good luck with whatever you decide to do.

[hempilation311]

one strike, then she's outtie

[Euphoric]

a year ago? thats not bad. assuming that you can still trust her and that was the only time it happened.

[Edgar]

Just imagine if the situation was reversed, would she forgive u?

[thcbongman]

Once a cheat......always a cheat.

Give your head a shove, and fuck that subject love.......you'll get another chance someday.

[koshea]

ouch bro