Similar situation where profile and stealth are important. I use boutiqueseeds.com as do a number of people here. You can use your credit card but they also have a cash service which I have used a number of times. You complete your order online but click the send cash option. Then you mail in $$ along with the order number. They send the seeds after they receive your $$. This means no paper trail at all. I also ship to 3rd party address.