just watered with no nutes, used white vinegar to bring my tap water to a ph of 6.33. The water set for 24 hours or so.Checked runoff and it seemed to be good with the ph at 6.6 so i think we might be alright.
Did not drown it this time. just enough to get a runoff, which was alot faster and less water since i transplanted.(perlite def made soil lighter)

We have to learn to be patient.

Thanks for everyones help, still learning this stuff, was getting frustrated.