if you give this poor baby any more food she will DIE. cow shit and sand ?? piss and suger? OMG!!! ASAP get a pot at least twice as deep and wide as the one its in now.[never use a clear pot].find those coconuts and fill your pot with the stuff from the OUTSIDE of the shell. rinse will with clean water.you will notice it does not hold much water....this is a good thing.now make a hole in it for ur baby.then take the plant in that clear cup and slide it between your fingers, turn it upside down and lift off the cup.if most of the sand doesn't fall off gently nudge it with your finger untill you see roots... when you see roots STOP. cover the remaining clump with ur free hand and turn it right side up and lower into the hole in your coco....there should be 2or 3 inchs of stem below the level of coco.....gently cover the sand ball with coco .now we are going to remove most of the remaining sand so your baby can breath again........ while supporting the plant and pot with one hand pour water drictly above the sand ball while shaking the pot/plant gently. this should dislodge the sand and wash it to the bottom of the pot.now you can put her in a shady spot [NO DRICT SUN] with a slight brezze .do not over water and no food until she shows new growth and then about 1/4 teaspoon per gallon 15-30-15 . if she lives let us know. good luck