ran out of time trying to get this edit to my previous post in...see? even i can't do everything...here is what i wanted to post above:

edit...and by personal attacks i'm only talking about meaningless name-calling and the like. criticism is well taken here and appreciated...i'm a big boy. i can handle it and hopefully make me a better person. it's just the, well you know, the negative, ill-meaning shit i'm talking about....