lol relax...good bud takes patients. yes most plant take between 8-10 weeks to fully mature. dont go off of "hairs" this doesnt tell you when a mother is fully matured. if you can get a cheap magnifying glass do so, start checking the trichomes, they will go through three stages. stage one they will be clear. then as they start maturing they will turn milky white, this signifies that harvest is around the corner. the last stage is when they turn amber, this tells you that the buds are fully matured and ready for havest. harvest when more then +50% of them are amber. a fully mature trichome has a better effect =ing better bud. hope this helps ya out!!!!

happy smoking!