look chickie...we all went through parental probs. mine sound exactly like yours...only diff is mine were both bankers. but still very concerned about what the neighbors will think, my pants are too tight, blue jeans? never...only po white trash wear em...same stupid meaningless shit you're going through now. it hasn't changed and it's not just little poor you either. the more ya fight it the worse it'll be. you have what...2-3 years left at home? chill and enjoy life at home while ya can...