Well i'm a teenager and i've been friends with someone for probably 8 years who is now 21. Not only was he my friend but he and his mom lived in the same condo building as my family. He had gotten kicked out of the house a few times and there were the very few times it was the moms lack of reasoning but 90% of the time it was his fault. Yes he was into hard drugs, like rachel, and did a lot of stupid things and took lots of stuff (such as cars and college) for granted. His mom just used to get fed up with his bullshit and kicked him out a few times. AND LET ME TELL YOU, IT WAS BEST FOR HIM. He's not 100% straight now, but from all his experiences he has gotten some shit together and his life is back on track. At the time he hated his mom and said things like 'I am going to slit her throat' but i'm sure if I asked him now, I bet he would say he was wrong.

After living out of her house for a year or 2 and saying sorry their mother-son relationship has never been so good. They have both excepted eachother and everything has pretty much worked out for the best. This just shows that after all the rough shit his mother's love is unconditional, as it naturally is for many.

Rachel, i'm not accusing you of anything. I just think you should maybe chill back and think about the whole situation. I really do hope the best for you and would love to hear an update in a few days. Good luck!