"and also, what is wrong with venting on the boards, who here hasnt made a thread about personal problems atleast once in their stay here at cannabis.com?"

threatening to slit throats is far from venting...no offense but if you consider yourself experienced with life you are in for a huge surprise...the fact you resort to name calling to attempt to make your point says a lot buy itself and backing someone dwelling so heavily into violence... face it...she fucked up and needs to get her life straightened out and it sounds like tough-love is being used as a last resort.