Easy. Don't smoke it if you don't want to. Just be in a calm, and trusting environment. Be an adult and stay calm.. I know this really don't help, but being in a good environment is the key to having a good experience. You don't need the "dro" for your first time. It isn't about looking, or being cool. That's what I hate about the "youth" of today. Smoking weed is in "style", but it's not about that. As long as it gets you "high" that's all that counts.