Quote Originally Posted by chrisouth
that was my initial thoughts completely but the thing is with her she only snoops to c what im about. my girl called her and confronted her and she played dumb and said she would never snoop like that. although one weekend she did stay and while we were gone she decided to "reorganize" every single drawer downstairs which led her to find my guerilla growing book and she never spoke a word of it. also my girl told her to keep the conversation to herself b/c the last thing she wants is for one of her family members coming and starting shit over something that was never there
she told my girl she had no reason to tell anyone. she knows if anything is said that we will know its cuz of her and she dont want that b/c my girl is very vindictive. sooo my main concern is the 4yr old girl saying something at daycare or school and what legal actions they would take. i mean what can they do for a 4yr old saying she seen plants in a tv ????
That one red highlighted bunch of words says a lot. It says your mother-n-law does not respect your privacy. This issue must be dealt with. And don't let anyone say, "You shouldn't have to worry about it if you have nothing to hide". That isn't the point.

I agree with the sentiment that you should lay low for now. After all, the cat's out of the bag. The beans have been spilled. I can't help but to think you wouldn't have this problem if "someone" would have kept their nose where it belongs. Rearranging BAH! Snooping is more like it.

In fact, I would tell her she can't come over till she learns to respect your privacy and your home. The way things are now, she is treating you with no respect at all.