need help fast. mother n law finds hidden cab & loudmouth 4yr old was present

[chrisouth]

come on fellas im not tryn to be niave b/c im extremely paranoid/ extra careful. maybe i didnt explain it good enough but they were in small jiffy pots and most the plants had not even broke surface yet. i dont know if u read my last post but this kid is anticipating and very excited about the early easter present she had found. i mean it makes since right ? that flower packs said 4-6 week indoor start so that was the best spot to keep her from seeing her easter present. we already showed her the packs and theres no way of convincing her now that they r anything but flowers.

[oldhaole]

Aloha,

Looks like you painted yourself into a corner. Go down to Lowes and get some flower starts, Get rid whats now in your jiffy pots. Put the flower starts into your jiffy pots (and make sure you get the starts on the seed packets)and when Easter comes around help her plant her new flowers outside or in a pot so she can watch them grow and enjoy them over Summer.

That will free up your T.V. for your flowers. Put a big old lock on your door. You will lose a few weeks of growing but your child will be happy and hopefully forget all about your grow. I just hope Neena forgets too. But I doubt it.

[Micsog]

get your key back!

[chrisouth]

i think i handled everything well. she came over today and acted as if nothin was wrong. affraid to piss her off if i get the key back but i did buy a lock for my bedroom door so all shoud b well

[boaz]

get her an easter bunny and she'll forget all about it. :jointsmile: or a puppy. give a neena a special brownie, that should chill her out.

[pepurr]

that was my initial thoughts completely but the thing is with her she only snoops to c what im about. my girl called her and confronted her and she played dumb and said she would never snoop like that. although one weekend she did stay and while we were gone she decided to "reorganize" every single drawer downstairs which led her to find my guerilla growing book and she never spoke a word of it. also my girl told her to keep the conversation to herself b/c the last thing she wants is for one of her family members coming and starting shit over something that was never there
she told my girl she had no reason to tell anyone. she knows if anything is said that we will know its cuz of her and she dont want that b/c my girl is very vindictive. sooo my main concern is the 4yr old girl saying something at daycare or school and what legal actions they would take. i mean what can they do for a 4yr old saying she seen plants in a tv ????

That one red highlighted bunch of words says a lot. It says your mother-n-law does not respect your privacy. This issue must be dealt with. And don't let anyone say, "You shouldn't have to worry about it if you have nothing to hide". That isn't the point.

I agree with the sentiment that you should lay low for now. After all, the cat's out of the bag. The beans have been spilled. I can't help but to think you wouldn't have this problem if "someone" would have kept their nose where it belongs. Rearranging BAH! Snooping is more like it.

In fact, I would tell her she can't come over till she learns to respect your privacy and your home. The way things are now, she is treating you with no respect at all.