Quote Originally Posted by powair
Just don't analyze it. If a guy acts like hes trying to flirt, its annoying. Just talk, find things you have in common, tell each other stories and shit. Your personality should be what attracts a girl.
for a while i did this too, because i didn't know any better. it only works if the girl is really open-minded, or your personality is just naturally attractive.

otherwise, there's nothing wrong with showing that you're interested, even if at first it is forced. it'll become natural in time.